Foster Care Blog

02/07/08

Sex Offenders - Parenting

Posted by : Lanette in Foster Care Blog at 10:34 pm , 349 words, 688 views  
Categories: Biological Parents
The numbers of sex offenders continue to grow in our country. It was reported the other day on television that more women are becoming sex offenders. Teachers and other women are having sexual relations with teenage boys.

You may be asking what does this have to do with foster care? In Texas, a mother of two small children (age: 4 and 5) was convicted of sexual assault. She was sentenced to 23 years in prison. The children have been in foster care since August 2006. The biological father is in California and was represented by an attorney. Other family members are unwilling to take the children. CPS has asked a judge to terminate the children’s parental rights.

The truth is, the biological mother will be unable to parent her children due to her 23 year sentence to prison and not to mention that now she is a sex offender. At this point the biological father has failed to come see his children since they have been placed into foster care.

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When a person chooses to become a sexual offender or predator should they lose their right to be a parent? Should the crime be viewed differently for a sexual offender that rapes an adult person or sexual offender that targets children?

The sexual crime itself is bad enough but in my opinion, you also have to view this crime as a extreme act of violence. I question the ability of a sex offender to be able to parent and raise a healthy child while ensuring his safety. The next concern would be any other children that would be around the sex offender, and the risk factor for them if they were parenting their children.

This is not something new to foster care, but it is now starting to receive more notice and publicity. With the tables turning, and now we are starting to see more women becoming sex offenders this is something that will become an issue when parental rights become an issue.

More reading:

The Repeated Cycle of Foster Care and Child Abuse

Abuse by a Foster Child: Finding Help

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Comment from: jalice [Member] Email
I agree with you in most of this article. At the same time. Each state has different laws and levels of sex offenders. I too would be against parents who rape a person. At the same time I don't think we should lump them all together. The lower level sex offender who was 19 and had sex with a 17 year old shouldn't be put in the same catagory as the child molester.

What bothers me is that as foster-parent we seldom know what abuse the child we are taking care of has been through. State may know but not be allowed to disclose past crimes or sex offender status to the foster-parents. Instead of having it be a deep dark secret; it would be helpful for DHHS to fully disclose what they know to the foster-parents.
PermalinkPermalink 02/08/08 @ 15:51
Comment from: getting old [Member] Email
I was sent to take children to a convicted rapists home for unsupervised visit by DSS... I bucked the system.. the guy was later convicted here as well for other sex crimes, thankfully the children did not have to return to his care...

the man later moved to Rhode Island because Virginia keeps are pretty long list of sex offenders open to public access, Rhode Island only lists people to the public who have raped and murdered...

I am sure he is not the only sex perp who learned this about Rhode Island..
PermalinkPermalink 02/10/08 @ 09:42
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