The older children living in foster care are at such a disadvantage. When they age out of foster care, they lose so much. They do not have a home or family to return to, that is truly their own. Yes, in some case they will have their foster family to count on. This is not in every case, and sad to say I know of foster parents that believe the day they turn 18 years old their job stops. Can you imagine your children, starting out in life without you to count on, to fall back on, or just to be there for them? Can you imagine starting your young adult life without the support of your family?

Just because a child turns 18 does not mean that they still do not need guidance and support from adults. These children for the most part do not have idea how to succeed on their own. They do not have the experience or guidance to get an apartment, budget monies, choose of job or school, shopping, cooking and health care.

Some states will, and are looking at continuing health care if they choose to go to school. Which is a great step in the right direction, since a large number of children in foster care are on medication, some with major emotional problems and diseases (depression, bipolar disorder, seizures, schizophrenia, just to name a few).

In Norwich, Connecticut DCF will be trying a new program to help young women to develop skills to allow them to care for themselves and become productive members of society. They are allowing the young women the time to get their feet grounded, build self esteem, and develop much needed skills. It is believed that the young women should be able to start their lives after a year or two in this program. You can read the plans of Norwich here.

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