Foster Care Blog

12/07/06

Getting Fired Up

Posted by : Lanette in Foster Care Blog at 06:34 pm , 319 words, 61 views  
Categories: News, Media
Texas has passed a new law that takes effect January 1, 2007, that a foster parent can’t smoke in front of their foster children including their homes and cars.
I can understand the state’s concerns about second-hand smoke with children that already have a number of things to over come. Yes, the surgeon general states that second-hand smoke can lead to SIDS and other respiratory ailments. In the beginning they wanted to not allow any smoking on the grounds of a foster home including outside, they decided to allow smoking outside.

I know great foster parents that do smoke (we don’t smoke). They will adjust but should they have to be restricted? There is such a shortage of foster parents, that there are babies, toddlers and children in group settings or shelters. Is this a better alterative? Some children spend Christmas, their first birthday, Thanksgiving, etc. in a shelter.
Is this not putting a greater strain on system that is already strained? Does this discourage foster parents instead of the opposite?

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Just some food for thought concerning new laws passed and the impact it has on the foster community

I don’t think smoking is good for anyone, but I don’t think it’s the worst thing either. How about doing more to get children adopted by a forever family?


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Also, in Texas, laws that are changing that will be effecting foster care.
Swimming pools will now have to have fences not alarm devices.
Age requirement for becoming a foster parent changed from 18 to 21 years of age.

Texas is following suit concerning, the no smoking along with Vermont, Washington, Maine, Arkansas, and Louisiana.

Please, post your thoughts or concerns.


Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible - the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family.
Virginia Satir

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Comment from: paulukon [Member] Email
I appreciate the law as one more step in making things a little less bad for the foster child. I couldn't imagine, as a non-smoker who cannot abide even being in the vicinity of a someone smoking (I hold my breath when walking past them outdoors and do not eat at any restaurants that allow smoking, etc.) being forced to live in a home with someone who smoked. Sure, there are worse things out there, but at least this is another step in the right direction of providing safe homes for kids.
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Comment from: Lanette [Member] Email · http://foster-care.adoptionblogs.com/
Thank you for your comment!
PermalinkPermalink 12/12/06 @ 09:34
Comment from: mark'swife [Member] Email
my husband is an outside smoker. I am a non-smoker who survived childhood Cancer. I do not allow ANYONE to smoke around my "kids"!! Howevr my husband is addicted to ciggs. He has tried several times to quit. I'm both happy and sad for him about this new law.
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 14:26
Comment from: Lanette [Member] Email · http://foster-care.adoptionblogs.com/
I totally understand about not allowing smoking around your children. It's something I don't allow either around my children but I'm also glad it is my choice. When I have smoking friends that visit and they do it outside. Which again I'm glad I have the right to allow them to smoking on my property just outside.

Thanks for reading and commenting.
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 15:07
Comment from: llambros [Member] Email
NY state does not allow smoking around Foster Children either. Not in the home or in the car. They do not restrict you from smoking outside, though. All health benefits aside.....when does the state cross the line from being Big Brother to Mommy Dearest?!?!
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