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12/13/06

A Child Placed In Foster Care After Mother Was Raped

Posted by : Lanette in Foster Care Blog at 07:55 am , 360 words, 64 views  
Categories: News, Media
A 7 year old little girl will be returning to her mother, after spending over a month in foster care. The 38 year old women was brutally beaten with the butt of a shot gun and raped. The man broke into her home in Georgia, locked the little girl in the closet of the same room her mother was raped in. The rapist then told the mother that he was going to rape her young daughter. The mother ran to the kitchen to retrieve a butcher knife to protect her daughter. She struggled in a fight for her own life and her daughter’s life. He was stabbed repeatedly. In the struggle the mother was stabbed and her attacker threw a pot of boiling tea from the stove on the mother. The attacker exited the house and reentered, the women stabbed the attacker several more times. The mother did end up killing her rapist. The attacker turned out to be a man she knew in high school.

The mother was in serious condition, recovering from her injuries, trauma of being raped and killing a person. Her daughter was not harmed and was placed in foster care. The mother had to complete a psychological evaluation before a judge could decide if her daughter would return to the care of her mother.

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People have very strong feelings and views on this matter.

I personally know I would protect my children at all cost in the same situation. I feel that you have the right to protect yourself and your children in your own home from being attacked or worse. As a mother I could endure the rape myself but don’t touch my children.

Is it right that the mother should have to complete a psychological evaluation to get her child back because she was the victim of a violent crime? Is she being punished because she protected her child by killing a man that was going to rape the child?

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do."
Eleanor Roosevelt

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Comment from: Lauri [Member] Email · http://adoptive-parenting.adoptionblogs.com/
I cant believe that... that enrages me that because she protected her self and child which she has every legal right to do on her property that she has to fight for her child.

That does not make sense to me...
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 09:11
Comment from: Cyndi [Member] Email · http://kazakhstan.adoptionblogs.com/
Do you have the link to this article? My goodness - how sad! I wonder where the extended family was for this little girl. :(
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 09:50
Comment from: paulukon [Member] Email
Yes and no....anyone who has been a victim of a violent crime--particularly rape, and even more so given that she ended up killing the mane--should be under intensive therapy. The community should be concerned about her child's well-being in her care. I don't think I could continue to care properly (alone) for my child a month after such an incident. I don't think I could care for myself at such a time!

I think it's too bad if courts are mandating this rather than it simply being a part of getting her life back in order.
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 13:34
Comment from: Chance [Member] Email
That is really hard one. I'm sure she has and will contuine to go though so much tramua that it would hard for anyone to contuine to go on and live life normally and parent a child (I'm assuming on her own?). It also depends on what the evulation was for? Was it to charge her? Or just to give her some help?
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 14:46
Comment from: Lanette [Member] Email · http://foster-care.adoptionblogs.com/
You can read about this story by doing a search on "Cherokee County, Georgia
woman raped". There are a number of articles about the story.

Yes, I think most people would need therapy. I also know that every person handles things differently. But is removing the child the only answer or the easiest one? If you have been a responsible parent all long, but a tragedy happens, “Does that mean you lose the right to decide what is in the best interest of your child?”

Should the mother receive help with counseling, and get her life back together? Yes, with a doubt. Maybe someone should check in on the family to see how they are dealing with the tragedy. To place a mother’s child in foster care and then she must prove to the state that she should get her daughter back. Is that really the answer? What exactly has this mother done to lose her child?

As I stated, people have strong feelings concerning this, as do I.

Thank everyone for voicing your feelings and viewpoints
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 14:58
Comment from: sos@nep.net [Member] Email
I fully support having the child in care while she was recovering from medical injuries. The court requiring an evaluation to get her child back, I think that mother well proved her feelings on what her worth of her child's safety was. That mother should have had the option of all the support she needed and the option of getting her child back soon with possibly a home aid a few days/hours per week in case she needed coping time. To forcer her to earn her child back is just a second rape by the government.
PermalinkPermalink 12/14/06 @ 06:48
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